1. Keep your shutter speed HIGH, at least 250 but I shoot for 500 with kids. Now this means you'll have to find good light. Like outside light.
2. Shoot in a safe place where kids can run and play. There's no point in trying to pin down a toddler or even an 8 year old. Everyone is more comfortable when you're having fun, running and playing. Be prepared and know your location before you start. Know the best light. Know where the kid will most likely go and be prepared to shoot there.
3. Shoot in AI Servo (continuous if shooting Nikon). This is an auto focus mode and if you look in your camera's manual you'll find that there are three options; AI Servo, One Shot, and AI Focus. AI Servo is a continuous refocusing mode so as you hold the shutter release down half way your camera will continue refocusing until it is pressed fully down. I use this one most of the time for my boys and around the house. I do switch it up several times if I'm shooting a wedding or something.
4. I always take candy but not just ANY candy. Be thoughtful about what you choose. Don't choose gum, they'll be chewing in all the photos. Don't choose bright blue salt water taffy, they'll have blue everywhere and be chewing in every picture. I take smarty's and pez. For little ones I take skittles. They are small enough and they won't turn their mouth blue or make them drool chocolate.
5. Allow props. Blankets, stuffed animals, even pacifiers, all of things will be on camera eventually and for me they capture the child's phase of life. They will eventually disapear for photos so let them be and when the chance comes move them out of the shot.
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7. Show the kid their photo in camera. Kids LOVE to see their photo and sometimes you can get them to make a silly face, show them and then they'll be much more cooperative in front of the camera.
8. Come up with some games to play. Red Light Green Light is a personal favorite. I've also played hop scotch and sometimes I'll just bring bubbles or side walk chalk to play with if we're not in a setting where we can just play around.
9. Allow the parents to take time off. Sometimes parents can be the most distracting thing to face when trying to get kids to relax. They want them to say cheese or smile all the time and coaxing a smile is the last thing you want to do with a kid. Encourage parents to let you take the lead for the shoot.
10. Speaking of cheese, DON"T do it! When you tell someone to smile they look forced. I sometimes do it just to get the after "cheese" smile but for kids it works best to make them laugh. Ask them if fish can climb trees or if their favorite food is chocolate covered sand. Silly things make kids laugh. Be silly!
11. Don't be afraid to just let mom hold the little one. There have been several times when the kiddo just doesn't want to let go of mom or dad and prying them away won't help anything. More times than not the snuggly momma pictures are the ones I love and that my clients love.
12. Don't worry if they're not looking directly at the camera all the time. As you can see LOTS of my favorite kids shots are when they kid is pretending I'm not around. Having mom and dad or brother and sister stand behind you or off to the side and do something funny is a sure fire way to get a little one to smile!
13. Some kids aren't smilers! My son was not a smiler until WAY late and so I have a lot of photos of him where he's not necessarily happy. Big smiles, while great, aren't usually the thing I go for. I go for the faces that only mom sees when they are playing pretend or reading a book in private. The photos of my son, where he looks like the son I see everyday are the ones I really treasure. Not all of them are him smiling :)
14. This one's a no brainer but bring your running shoes! Be prepared to move with and around the child at their pace... and keeping up is important!
15. Take LOTS of pictures. This is why I love digital cameras. The camera never tells you you've taken too many photos so just keep clicking! And refocus lots. Make sure you use that shutter release frequently to make sure you get proper focus. I always focus on the eye closest to me or either eye if they are facing me.
Those are just a few of the things I frequently use to get kids to let loose, have fun and make great photos. If you've got more ideas please share!















So what do you do with the smarties, exactly? I had a seriously tired-who's-the-strange-lady-I-don't-want-to-smile-and-my-mom-is-grumpy four year old today at a mini-session that I could NOT connect with, she was not built for the mini-sessions atmosphere as by the time she warmed up she the time was up! Ugh! I am not sure I got a very cute picture of her at all... I was so discouraged. I showed her her pictures, she couldn't care less about the smarties, dazzled her with my knowledge of Tangled and Garfield, and made Lightening McQueen ka-chow noise- nothing. I think she just needed 22 minute to warm up and we of course had 20.... AAAAA! So how do you exactly use the smarties?
ReplyDeleteWith the smarties I find that they work best at the end of the session and I will sometimes use them in a competition. I'll say, if there are siblings, whoever gives me the best smile wins a smarty or whoever gives me the worst looking face wins a smartie (usually ends in some great interaction shots). If there are no siblings then I am the competition :) I'll also tell the littler ones that I have a special surprise for them at the end of the session if they can show me their best dance moves or their best smiles. I've had loads of super shy kids, can't think of any with just straight out attitude but for the shy ones I just let them be and try my best to disappear. I'll tell the mom something like "I'm going to go over here and you give her some good snuggles, tickler her a bit and talk about your day". Then I'd step back a ways and shoot from every angle (I rotate around in a circle) to make sure that I get shots that look different but aren't necessarily different settings. Then I'd let the girl off the hook. Once you tell them that they're done, they'll probably want to be a part of it! I tend to ignore parents for the first 15 minutes or so and JUST focus on the little ones. That seems to help iron out any "whose in charge" issues between me and mom and it gives the kid some time to get used to me and my crazy antics. Oh and I dance a lot when shooting four year old girls, something about ballet and me not knowing anything about it makes little girls howl :)And then they want to show me their moves! HTH! Don't feel bad, you can only do so much. We're not miracle workers!
ReplyDeleteOh and mini sessions terrify me :) I like controlling the timing of the session so that it works with the child's schedule and light waaaaaay too much to feel comfy with mini sessions. I think if I ever do the mini's I'm going to only do six... maybe eight over two days (three/four morning, three/four evening) and will make really sure that whoever I book has given ample thought to nap time. Helping clients think through every obstacle they might face during a session is critical and sacrificing just to get it in never works out (not that that's what happened). I wouldn't be able to do a 20 minute session either. I'd need at least 30-45 minutes... probably more like 45 especially since a normal session for me runs 2-3 hours.
ReplyDeleteGreat tips Ashley...I have 2 five yr old twin boys to shoot on sat...it's a 35 min mini session...I am hoping it goes well! Will be trying some of these out I am sure :)
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